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You upset people, they give you feedback, but then you forget and you upset them again

Suggested by Christian Matthew over 3 years ago

Just sharing a stronger pain I noticed in my life.


I'm in a relationship, so I upset my girlfriend many, many times per year. When I upset her, it stings both of us. I apologize and tell her I'll do better next time. However, very often, I forget and need to be reminded. At this point, it's already too late. Maybe I should have taken notes and remembered.


I don't have this problem with friends and family, but other people may have the same problem with their friends and family. A solution could be made to help solve this too, if existing solutions aren't great already.


Why Now?

I still have this problem, and many relationships (any kind) do as well, probably.

Possible Solutions
lightbulb  Eric Niehaus proposed Anonymous Feedback • about 2 years ago
comment  Bianca Swidler commented • over 3 years ago
lightbulb  Alan Gordon proposed Do your best & Don't worry too much • over 3 years ago
comment  Christian Matthew commented • over 3 years ago
lightbulb  ilker delen proposed identify as single • over 3 years ago
lightbulb  Christian Matthew proposed App that logs your mistakes w/ people • over 3 years ago
lightbulb  Christian Matthew proposed Notes App • over 3 years ago
lightbulb_outline  Christian Matthew suggested that we solve You upset people, they give you feedback, but then you forget and you upset them again • over 3 years ago